Some of the causes of violence in your marriage

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The phenomenon of domestic violence almost every day of issue and present in newspapers, television, and radio. Then the question is why does this happen so easily?

The phenomenon of domestic violence almost every day of issue and present in newspapers, television, and radio. This news create fear and makes the heart sad. Then the question is why does this happen so easily? Is this caused by the development of modern times already and sophisticated or a warning to mankind that these are signs of the end times?

Many factors make domestic violence, and it should avoid so it does not happen in your family. Here are a few factors.

1. Talking loud and painful
This behavior is very important and you should absolutely avoid to all family members. Talking loud and loud will make the listener hurt another case with a polite talk will make the other person becomes sympathetic. Thus will avoid misunderstandings that make strife in your family.

2. Can not wait
The next factor is impatience, because it is a benchmark in the event you take action. In family life must not be separated from error. If you have a family you do something wrong do occasionally sentenced. Give the concerned speak to convey his argument. Then give advice or advice with a polite tone and wise not to repeat the same mistakes.

3. The nature of the ego
The nature of selfishness will only encourage your hearts be hard then appear arrogant behavior and persecution of others. Keep the nature of your life. Because if the nature of the egoism continue nesting and settles in the human heart over time will emerge types of liver disease include stubbornness difficult to accept the advice of others, envy, revenge, and so forth. Keep properties like that of your life.

4. Economy
One case of domestic violence are economic factors that are less well established, in terms of the domestic life of the economy is still fragile. So with such a situation will arise various disputes in your household everyday because of the demands of a spouse or your child are not met. So before you carry home life should prepare your financial ability to meet the needs of a decent life.

5. Looking for a scapegoat
When you get a big problem in the work that makes a chaotic mind, do not ever vent into the house because family members do not know anything. Resolve problems in your work and do not jumble into the family. It would be nice if you talk, your partner may have a way out of your problems.

6. There is no culture of democracy in the household
In the family, the husband has the task of becoming the head of the family but not all things are done it right. If the husband of one in conveying or doing something, as wives do not hesitate to justify. Vice versa, if the wife of doing something, husband obligation to steer to the right path. With gentle words it will be readily accepted by the couple and not to make the hurt.

7. Less is open in the family
Less open is one of the things that can make it harmonious married life. If you have a problem outside, do not sweat it alone, it will make you become a greater burden. Communicate about issues received to your partner and find a solution together that would ease the burden of your problems.

8. Go out of the house for no reason
In this case many examples done by children who grew up and still unstable. As a parent, you should be more strict in maintaining and supervising your children while going out of the house. By giving directives about the negative and positive outside the house, then your children will think and away from negative things that you are prohibited.

9. PRIS bad
Prejudiced against the couple will make the discomfort in the household. These properties would make sense not to believe in all the things that couples do. With a good mind to couples will foster mutual trust in married life and this will add to the harmony in the family.

Tips on How to tell your husband that you are Pregnant

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Perhaps you do not keep your husband that you want to get pregnant, then when the time arrives to tell the good news to your husband, you want to make it special.

Perhaps you do not keep your husband that you want to get pregnant, then when the time arrives to tell the good news to your husband, you want to make it special. Some people like to talk about it directly, while others like to make a surprise. There are a variety of ways to share the excitement, below are some of them:

Say directly

I remember the day when I learned that I was pregnant, just like yesterday. It was about seven o'clock in the morning of the New Year, I wake up and can not sleep anymore, so I decided, why not. I go and check and make sure that there are two pink lines. I do not even know what I did, after a long wait, I finally going to become a mother. I shouted, and ran and jumped to the top of the mattress. My tests show it in front of my husband's nose and he tried hard to find out what was going on. I still remember the joy on his face when woken in the morning of the New Year and was told that he would be a father.

Prepare special meals

One fun way to tell your husband that you are pregnant is to prepare "baby food" for him. You can cook a small carrot, and food according to the size of the baby. It's fun to tell the "secret" at dinner.

Give your husband a gift a father

A smart idea is to buy baby clothes with neutral colors that reads "I love my father." When she opened the gift will not be any misunderstanding about what you are trying to say to him.

Make it as a game

Create a crossword puzzle or a game of treasure hunt. Make a crossword puzzle with words associated with the baby (such as breastfeeding, pacifiers, blankets, diapers, etc.). Treasure hunting game can lead your husband into the room that you have set for baby room, or to place a gift a father.

Reforming the house so ready to welcome baby

Arrange the house according to the needs of the baby while your husband is at work (this should be done), when your husband came home he would ask why all has been made safe for the baby, and this is the right time to tell your husband that encouraging news .

Whatever way you choose to tell your husband that you are pregnant, be sure to record it and even take a picture so you can keep it in your baby's first book. This is an exciting time that you will never forget, and one day you can share it with your child.

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"How to tell your husband you are pregnant" by Kelsie Stanfill.

Some Things Hurting Heart Feelings husband and your marriage

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When newly married wife sometimes feel a bit overwhelmed realizing the magnitude of his responsibility to love and care of her husband. Sudden almost all the welfare and happiness of another person is strongly influenced by the actions and choices by his wife. Women, we should be careful in taking care of my husband and our marriage.

Here are some things you without you knowing it can destroy your husband and marriage. Do not let little things ruin your chance to savor the greatest happiness in life. (Note: although this writing about women, but applies also for men)

1. Living exceed your ability

A wise old woman once told, "The best thing to do for a woman her husband is to live according to his ability." Wife, show your appreciation and respect to the husband by following budget carefully and make the best use of what you have.

Whine constantly because not enough money and wasteful spending so that your credit card can not be used again is a bad way to express gratitude to you faithful husband and has been working hard to meet the needs of the household. You are not able to buy a Gucci bag that's been months of your dreams, but your husband will thank you that you have to respect him and be grateful for what he gave.

2. The negative attitude of unceasing

You hate your hair, messy house, next to the nosy neighbors, co-workers who are incompetent, trashy old cars and many other trappings. Once the husband comes home from work you throw all the resentment that meets your heart that day.

Imagine a heavy load. Negative attitudes spend energy. Although men like to fix something that is not right, but if you are flooded with all things negative, it is difficult for him to solve your problem.

One thing I learned from a good marriage is the man who wants to live a happy life, and if he can not help you feel happy, he would be very disturbed. No harm, and it is understandable if you occasionally experience a less pleasant day, but do not complain every day.

3. Concerned other things

If you are more concerned about the child, mother, friend, talent or career than your husband, you openly declare that he is not important. Imagine if over the years someone do that to you. What will happen with your self-esteem?

Prioritizing your husband.

Although it may seem inappropriate and unproductive, you will be amazed when realizing that it is the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. Many couples divorce because they do not pay attention and love each other and do not prioritize their partners.

If you choose to prioritize each other, you will find happiness.

4. Not being affectionate towards her husband

Men yearn for and need intimacy of their wives, when you continuously ignore it they will be frustrated.

Physical relationship should not be manipulated to control the husband; it should be seen as a sacred way to forge a strong bond between the two of you.

Is a great gift when you feel needed and missed by a romantic husband who want to enjoy something important and beautiful with you - just you. Although you do not want it at the time, it is important that you follow his will (if possible) and spend some time to establish love with him.

5. The difference between women and men

Women like to give the (already a female instinct). Men do not understand the signs of the (already a male instinct).

Do not waste your time by giving a sign that he did not understand: Speak frankly. Be honest about how you feel, do not wait until you explode. When he asked what was wrong, do not lie to answer "no nothing" but wished he could read your mind and emotions. Be open to express your feelings.

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"5 ways you are unknowingly destroying killing your husband and your marriage" by Katelyn Carmen.

Married Women Survey reason. For Love or Money?

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You'll often hear and witness the wedding  failures often experienced by many couples.

Among the reasons for the divorce, partly as a result of too many differences in terms of finance is often a crucial problem in married life.

The wives or more women choose to end the marriage if the husband or the man did not have enough money to feed. The weather today is more intelligent and realistic thinking besides committed in a marriage.

Launched the official website of The Richest.com, Monday (10/14/2013), marriage is not just merely talking about love, but also realistic to tread life more settled and prosperous.

Married to a man who does not have a job or savings will not give happiness in your life.

The reason is not because women materialistic, but the money is regarded as one of the bases in a marriage than love.

Before either choose a partner, it helps the women pay attention to these things before going any further into the level of marriage:

1. Marrying Men who Steady

Intelligent woman would marry a man who has a strong financial base. Women will feel lucky as you and your partner can plan a better future, such as building a house, and other companies. Finance is an important part of the wedding.

2. Select the pair that Intend to Invest

A smart woman knows how to choose a spouse. They must judge the man related to the ability to manage finances effectively.

You also need to listen to the man if he has an investment plan for the family in the future. Let's start building a dream and the future of the couple now.

3. Find Men with Myriad Plans

A smart woman should know that her husband would not rely on luck for a moment, such as a lottery to meet future needs.

Your partner should be able to guarantee their families financially, such as where he would work the next five years? Then if he plans to buy a house, what a financial plan the man in the long term and short term, and so on.

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Assume wife why her husband is not romantic anymore?

Many wives who lost their husbands complained romance. Back when still courtship, it appears the romance that makes them interact in an intimate and affectionate. Similarly, when the newlyweds, the sides of the romance is still being felt. But over time, the wife started complaining about her husband's passive attitude and lost romance. Interaction and communication after marriage progressively decreased both quality and quantity.

"Why have you never again praise and seduce me? It used to be you could apply romantic, now can no longer ", lamented Mia to John, her husband.

"We've added the old, the child is big, what yes told as a young child who likes to seduce courtship .... Remember dear, we're not young anymore ... ", replied John.

"Are the couple forties as we already unfit for romantic again my husband? We are not too old ... "said Mia did not budge.

What happened to John and Mia? Actually this is not a matter of "one who", but the only problem is typical differences between men's and women's. They do not understand each other no different between husband and wife, giving rise to an atmosphere of mutual wonder even to blame each other.

What Happens In Husband?

In general, men tend to have a "comfort zone" in a relationship. Before you have a wife, he tried to get the ideal wife by the standards of manhood, and for that he was willing to do anything to get his running mate. A man trying to catch up and get attractive women and make it crazy, which is expected to be a wife. He made great efforts in order to get the girl, though sometimes have to compete with many other men.

But after having a wife, men began to enter the comfort zone. He felt safe, no need to chase or make an effort to get a life companion, because it was at his side. When it entered the comfort zone in relationships, men feel can focus on other things in life without having to worry about looking for a companion live longer matters. He could focus on careers, jobs, organizations, hobbies, and so forth, and convinced that his wife is also conveniently located next to it.

In some circles husband, when being alone with his wife, no matter when he read the newspaper, watch the news on TV or working on a laptop, and his wife was engrossed in a book or play a blackberry. Mutual busy and preoccupied doing their own affairs, is a peace and happiness for some of the men.

For him, it was more than enough. Then men become more indifferent impressed after marriage, but it means that he already feels comfortable and stable with his wife.

Attitudes like this is the most romantic wife called and did not care. In the eyes of the wife, the husband lost romance after marriage, especially when it's taking a long time. Though the husband feels nothing has changed from him. In fact, he felt it was so comfortable home life, and wonder why the wife still searching for its shortcomings.

What Happened to the wife?

On the other hand, women need "consistent attention" in a relationship. Wife wants to be treated as a romantic, a bit of envy, courted, praised, takes making out, and so forth. Moreover, when before the first married the man had seemed romantic, women have high expectations that he would be more romantic after marriage. Many women want romance and drama in a relationship, she wants to see him trying to beatify him. Even enough to see his effort alone, women already feel happy. Therefore, when you're alone, women will complain when he is busy working on a laptop or blackberry play without notice.

When the wife was alone with her husband at home and saw her husband busy doing activities on a computer or mobile phone, the wife will think, "Why I ignored this? Already he's super busy, rarely at home, so at home instead preoccupied with its own activities. Maybe he had not love me .... "And that is in the husband's mind is," There you are here alone, I've been happy. Now I can move in peace .... "

Wife thought, "Why engrossed with a laptop or cell phone when alone with me? You're able to do it while in office. Why do not you care about me? "While the husband thought," Why should I are again waiting for work on the laptop? You can always do something else, watch TV, read a newspaper or read a book or apapunlah that pleases you ... "

When repeatedly experienced something like this, the wife will start complaining to her husband. Over time this complaint turned into demands. Responses are usually offended husband and defensively, as he does not do anything wrong. Wife accuses husband is not sensitive, romantic and inconsiderate, while the wife accuses husband demanding and looking for trouble. Consequently quarrel ensued and blaming each other. Just because they did not understand the needs of their partner, and do not know what to do.

Mutual Understanding, Mutual Compromise

In the events as experienced by Mia and Bayu above, there is nothing to blame. Both of them just need to be trained and accustomed to mutual understanding, mutual understanding and mutual compromise. When Mia and Bayu already understand what it takes her partner, then the solution becomes easy for them to get. What is needed is the willingness of a husband and wife to always try to understand your partner, and then determine the most likely point of compromise over the differences that occur between them.

The wife should understand the general trend of men in appreciating a relationship, as well as the husband should understand the general trend of women. They both will be easier to adjust, because understand why different viewpoints can happen. A compromise is possible between husband and wife, if they had a good understanding with his partner wishes.

Examples of compromise that is, the husband and wife provide for the special times there should be no interference in the relationship. For example, a particular day or time, husband and wife are not preoccupied by work and activity respectively. Could be sitting, chatting, joking both freely. Unmolested mobile phones, blackberries, laptops, newspapers, magazines, TV and so forth. Special times and special, where they can freely talk and discuss anything without being bothered by the busyness of each.

How did the Happiness Getting Together Couple

If you really want the best relationship and developing relationships for the long term, mutually keep each other's behavior is the most important thing to do.

Here are 7 secrets to get a happy relationship with your partner that you should know.

1. Spend time together.

This is the most obvious step and fundamental to keep love alive. Spend time together and then make it as a habit. Create a space where you can breathe together, that is when the conversation occurred.

2. Know your partner's love language.

We appreciate each loving behavior in different ways. Often couples have the same love language is completely different.

If you do not know what you mean mate, then ask. Maybe pasanngan you have tried to share with you, but you might miss it. So, find out today.

Just by asking, "What are the things I've done that makes you feel most loved?" It will surprise him. Maybe just by touching it, or when you held a surprise birthday party. Most importantly, show appreciation and affection that was really fun.

3. Commit to embrace 20 seconds twice a day.

Why should last 20 seconds? That's why it takes a long time to react oxytocin (otherwise known as the "cuddle hormone") which gives a pleasant feeling. So, every morning before you go to work and then when you get home, spend a full 20 seconds in the arms.

But remember, because it works well and feels so good, if you skip this ritual too often, your partner will soon be felt ignored. So it is important to commit to and enjoy.

4. Learn to listen (without disturbing).

Want to listen to your partner's outpouring of hearts content is one thing you should do. By listening to and can give you advice or a good way out of the problem that he feels it, the same as you have given it a very extraordinary attention.

This will make your partner feel valued and have a high sense of confidence because of the full support of you. In addition, it can also put you as a person who is right on the side.

5. plan your future together.

Remember, you are in a team URLs, so work together in all aspects of your life. Whether it's about the children, your personal career, your sexual life, or just find out what you want to do this weekend.

6. Make sure the one with the other.

Everyone needs a guarantee from time to time. Do not wait until one of you lost faith in the pair. The assertion about how much you care about your relationship, it needs to be done at any time.

And nothing makes us feel secure in our relationship when he heard the way we appreciate your spouse.

7. Focus on what you want in your relationships.

Focus on what is going on in your relationship, compared to what went wrong in your relationship. Would better compliment than criticize. Deep down, we all yearn for the feeling and beautiful words like, "I love you, only you".

Challenge yourself to let go of criticism and invite your partner to feel happy because it is loved.

Some Questions You Must Answer Before Deciding Married

Are you going to get married or are planning to get married in the future? If true, then there are a few questions you need to answer before saying, "Yes!". Marriage is a life long adventure that can be very fun, or terrible. So, you need to prepare yourself as best as possible before marriage. If you are not ready, maybe you will feel that your marriage like a disaster. It can be seen from the number of whole corn marriage ended in divorce. Therefore, before you decide to build a wedding and prepare to spend your life with your partner, think about the following questions.

1. Are you interested in your partner emotionally and physically?

The decision to marry a person should not be based solely on physical appearance alone. However, because we are going to look at him and communicate with him every day, so make sure you are interested in the physical appearance of your partner. If not, a time will appear physical disgust with the pair, which can lead to problems in the family.

Additionally, make sure you love your partner emotionally. If you just love someone because of their physical, but not like the kepribadiaannya, then your marriage could be threatened.

2. Are you ready to commit to spend the rest of your life with him?

Committed to spend the rest of the time to be with someone is not an easy decision. In addition, you also have to make sure that you are ready with this long-term commitment. Remember, everyone is going to get older so that you and your partner can change much different than it is today. You should be able to spend the rest of your life and grow as a couple. Committed to each other will help you grow as a couple, and also a person with a better person.

3. When you argue or disagree with your partner, what happened?

Have you always had a big fight when there is a difference of opinion? Quarrels and disagreements often happens after you get married. You should be able to compromise, and understand your partner in many ways. It is a necessary condition that must be met by any person who is getting married.

4. Do you get loyal, and trustworthy?

This question must be answered because inevitably, you will spend time with him for life. If you can not be faithful to your partner, then do not even think of getting married. Your future will not be bright.

5. Do you have a vision of life that is different?

Common vision of life is an important factor to achieve a successful marriage. With a shared vision of life, you will have a way to connect, grow together and help each other. And when your children grow up, it makes you easier to teach a vision of your life to a child without a lot of conflict.

6. Whether you are someone who he was looking for and wanted him to marry?

If you are not the ideal partner for her partner, then again pertimbangankan your decision before marriage. Getting married is not easy. Therefore, marry someone who is looking for the kind of partner with the criteria that match your personality and character.

7. Do you have a purpose in life and lifestyle of the same?

Imagine if you are someone who does not like nomadic, while your partner is always moving during the 6 months of the year. Can you enjoy a happy life with him? What if you like to live in a quiet area, while he preferred to stay in the bustling big city? This question should be able to find a solution.

By marrying, you've agreed to like what she likes and be someone who can enhance his life. You must have a difference. However, the distinction made as a complement to one another.

8. Are You Two equally Want to Have Children?

If you want to have children while he does not want it, then you need to discuss whether the proposed marriage is the best thing for both of you.

9. If you are a current candidate have physical limitations, would you like to spend time with her life?

This question is often sought avoided by everyone. However, life is unpredictable. He might be able to walk on two legs at this time, but he might not be able to do so in the future because of an accident. Can you stick to the support, and live forever with him when this happened?

10. Are you ready to put her needs than you need?

In marriage, you and your partner should be prepared to give and take, especially in the early age of marriage. You will face a situation where you have to give up the dream to buy a car because at the same time, you have to help him help her to complete the doctoral study. At that time, you have to make sacrifices.

11. Are You Ready to be a Good Team Member?

Once married, you can no longer decide anything alone, like deciding to buy a new home, or deciding education for children. If you can not cooperate, or even hates times when you must argue in taking decisions, maybe you need to reconsider plans to marry her.

There will be many occasions when you have to work together and make decisions together. Chance it could happen every year, every month, or even the end of each day. If you can not support each other, then your marriage will not take place happy.

12. Are you proud of your spouse?

When your partner reaches a certain achievement, or achieved his dream, if you are also proud of him? When she is in your family, you should be proud when talking about him.

13. Are You Ready to Receive Your partner family, and support they if needed?

When the wedding vows, you do not just marry your spouse. You also 'married' families as well. There are many occasions such as weddings, or family gatherings where you shall come in it and participate in the event. Sometimes, you also need to help them financially. Are you ready?

14. Are You Sharing Income, or Using Separate Bank Account?

Financial problems are one of the problems that are often used as an excuse by a person for a divorce. Therefore, make sure you have the same view when managing the family finances. When your income and your spouse are significantly different, make sure it does not become a source of contention in the household.

Once again, life is unpredictable. Therefore, use these questions as a guide before you decide to get married. These questions will help you choose the right decision, and not in a hurry to get married.

Be careful in Understanding Sexual Relationships

Sexual intercourse should be a special moment, a celebration of the love of a man and a woman who promised to stay together until death in a valid marriage bond. (Read: Married Have Health Benefits in Retirement)

However, these moments are often the scene when sexual relations between men and women is exaggerated and changed its meaning. That, the sign of love and a sign of love to be proven with sexual intercourse although not in a valid marriage bond. 

So what about the sexual relationship in marriage is not valid? Sexual intercourse is becoming intimate relationship irresponsible to risk occurs:

1. Pregnancy outside of marriage,

2. The child out of wedlock,

3. Abortion is not safe,

4. The spread of sexually transmitted infections and HIV / AIDS,

5. Increased stress and depression.

Controlling Lust Sex

Considering these things, certainly not a problem to say "No" to the unprotected sexual intercourse.

In addition to saying "No", take precautions to avoid doing various activities that tend to sexual stimulation can continue to be a sexual relationship needs to be done.

Controlling sexual appetite can be done by:

1. Physical activity such as sports or hobbies to pass the time will also help avoid the pair of activities that have the potential for the occurrence of sexual intercourse is not responsible.

2. Conducting rollicking, avoid alone together.

3. Avoid doing "Petting".

4. Do not be consumed by the environmental effects of "free sex".

5. Remember to save face for our legitimate partner in the future, especially women.

6. Approach religion.

Behind the success of Men - There is a Great Woman

The success of a man due to have a terrific woman at his side. The role of women in favor of men to be successful it is important. Many men who have been successful and famous in the world recognizes that the biggest factor for the success they have a right and a great wife, so as to pass through every challenge in the fight of their careers.

Why does a man who has a great woman by his side can succeed ? Here's why.

• 1. For women who have always supported

The woman who supports her partner is a woman who always ready to give a boost to his partner in all circumstances.

• 2. Because it has a woman who is always praying for

Women are required to pray for her partner. Many people who say prayers a very powerful woman.

• 3. Because it has a woman who always take care of

One of the obligations of a good wife is taking care of her husband as well as possible.

• 4. Because it has a caring woman

Attentive wife will make the husband becomes more love. Husband and wife need attention in every way.

• 5. Because it has a compassionate woman

Loving woman is a woman who can spoil her and make her husband can always feel the warmth of genuine affection.

• 6. Because it has a gentle lady

Gentle woman is a woman who can communicate well and wisely, though under any circumstances that may upset him, he can be calm.

• 7. Because it has a smiling woman

Smiling woman who is always smiling woman both hard and glad he will continue to show the smile to give encouragement to his partner.

• 8. Because it has a woman who always helped

Women who always helped her partner is a woman who is ready to help his partner in any trouble.

• 9. Because it has a faithful woman who accompanied him

Faithful woman is a woman who will not leave her partner under any circumstances either difficult or happy.

• 10. Because it has a woman who could become listeners

Women who could become a listener is a woman who at the time of their partner in distress or emotion can be a good listener, who only heard to lament spouse relief vent.

• 11. Because it has a female patient

Woman patient is a woman who always receive the stoic any problems encountered in the household.

• 12. Because it has a hard-working woman

Women who work hard are women who are also trying to help her husband both in terms of earning money for the family involved, or taking care of the family completely, including care for the elderly spouse.

• 13. For women who have big hearts

Women with big hearts are women who can receive state partner in any case and always feel happy.

• 14. Because it has a humble woman

Humble woman is a woman who never arrogant or show off the success he achieved with his partner and always simple life.

• 15. Because it has a generous woman

The gracious lady is a woman who has helped not only his family but also those around him.

• 16. Because of the woman who could advise him

Women who can advise her partner is necessary so that when the partner is not able to think clearly he can straighten or give opinions to help his partner.

• 17. Because of the women who understand

Women who can understand her partner is a woman who actually loves her partner outside and inside so that he can understand everything about her partner.

• 18. Because of the woman who would sacrifice

Women who are willing to sacrifice is a woman who was willing to leave everything he had for the sake of pleasure or life partner has been chosen.

• 19. Because it has an easy woman to forgive

One of the women who rarely possess greatness of men is easier to forgive, when the husband made a mistake, forgive him. By forgiving also will help to be a better husband and adults in the future.

• 20. Because it has a woman who could make him happy

Women who can make their partner happy is key in driving the success of her partner. When households are happy then someone more motivated to be better in the future.

Everyone had a great opportunity to achieve success in life

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Love in Marriage - How to Maintain and Increasing ?

Great love has always been fundamental to perfect happiness, for it every time you need to increase the love in your household that the more days you both love each other more.

• In households of course there are always obstacles encountered, but do not make these constraints as barriers to improving your love towards your true partner. In marriage, the difference in the character has always been considered as obstacles often contentious, but you must always remember, when you have decided to get married with your choice, you are ready to accept the state of your partner for granted.

The word "is" probably very easy to listen to but in reality many people are still not easy to accept it because it is very difficult to do. But the real true love is when you love your partner's shortcomings have not only advantages, and vice versa. Great love has always been fundamental to perfect happiness, for it every time you need to increase the love in your household that the more days you both love each other more. Here are few ways to increase love in marriage.

• 1. Give attention

Paying attention is very important in maintaining domestic harmony. By giving attention to your love will be even greater. Giving attention to each other in your family, for example by reminding your partner to be careful or prepare clothes for your partner.

• 2. Mutual support

As a couple, you need to always support each other in every way. The support comes from partner helps us to better bersamangat achieve any goals in the future.

• 3. Communicate with good

Communication is one of the most important things in a marriage relationship. If you are having trouble communicating with your partner, do not despair to continue to try to implement the best communication strategies. Communicate well can help you to increase the love in marriage.

• 4. Giving a special surprise

Occasional special surprise for your partner is good for your relationship. For example, by giving your partner a gift or invite your partner a romantic dinner.

• 5. Be honest in all respects

Trust is the basis or foundation for any marriage relationship. To be harmonious and happy relationship can be established with a lasting, you and your partner need to trust each other tricks. Make a commitment to be honest in all things with your partner.

• 6. Pamper your partner when tired

When tired of someone in dire need of peace. When your partner is tired, treat him for example by massaging or give a hug dear. Your partner will feel better and more love you.

• 7. Spend as much time as possible with your spouse

Spending time together is very important to maintain the integrity of your household. Be sure to set a specific schedule for the couple. Trust me, this will make a big difference in your marriage relationship.

• 8. Give praise to your spouse

Give awards in the form of words of praise to your partner every time he does something to you, such as your partner to help you clean the house, or cook for you when you are sick. Compliment them by saying that they are great or good cooking. This good habit if it continues to be cultivated will make your relationship is always fun.

• 9. Do not take revenge

When your partner is a small error embarrassing mistake never use it as an excuse to get revenge on your partner. Loving couples will always forgive and forget the mistakes of his loved ones.

• 10. Humor

Humor is one of the things that must be built from scratch in the household. If your relationship without humor and always serious, it will make the relationship feel stiff and not good for your family harmony. Humor or laughter can help the relationship becomes more colorful and happy. Live the life you both with a more relaxed and enjoyable.

• 11. Say the words of affection when speaking

In addition to giving praise to your spouse, you also need to always say the words affection to your partner, for example, do not ever get tired of saying, "I love you", "Thank you, my husband handsome", or "Well, my dear". Apply this way from the beginning of your marriage and commit to continue to do so until the old, this will really help you become a more romantic relationship.

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Conflict Household - How Ease ?

Nothing is impossible to achieve if there is a will and a genuine desire of both parties to the conflict to create a harmonious life in a relationship as a family member.

• When observed carefully, the life of a family is like the life of a country, certainly in the context of a smaller scale. Therefore, there would be a period in which the life of facing the challenges and obstacles that come from within and from outside, and various efforts will be done in order to maintain its integrity.

There are interesting here, because the family is like the life of a country, if there is a dispute, efforts are usually done by a country it also can be applied in domestic life, and efforts are commonly referred to as "accommodation" .

Literally, the term "property" itself is, "Human efforts to defuse the dispute or conflict to achieve stability." Related parties in conflict then meet to conform with existing state and then work together to create a harmonious life back. Well, if a country in conflict can be returned along with the effort of accommodation, how the "state" smaller is family? Nothing is impossible to achieve if there is a will and a genuine desire of both parties to the conflict to create a harmonious life in a relationship as a family member. There are 12 accommodation efforts that can be done to relieve the ongoing conflict, and 12 of these efforts are:

• 1. The ceasefire

Couples who are fighting or two families who are fighting for a moment can do "ceasefire", for a certain period of time that should not be disturbed, to seek appropriate solutions on how to resolve the problems being faced.

• 2. Arbitration

Is solving problems involving third parties as a conduit of decisions that must be adhered to and accepted by both parties in conflict, and as the mediator can be done by parents, siblings, or judge.

• 3. Mediation

Cessation of disputes by a third party for a moment, but did not give a binding decision. For example, mediation conducted to couples in conflict with the goal to find a middle ground that can be agreed upon by both parties in the middle of the conflict in order to reunite.

• 4. Conciliation

That is an attempt to reconcile the desire of each party to the conflict in order to reach mutual agreement.

• 5. stalemate

That is a state in which both parties in conflict have the same power, then deadlock "can not go forward or backward", stalemate usually can occur in cases of child custody, or seizure of inheritance

• 6. Adjudication

Is how to resolve the problem when there is a dispute in court.

• 7. Elimination

The resignation of one of the parties in conflict are usually characterized by an attitude budge.

• 8. Subjugasi or domination

Namely the situation where one party has a greater power or dominate, to force others to obey. Thereby not recommended to solve the problem because it would harm others.

9.Majority rule

Regulation of the majority, it is usually done by voting to make decisions, and sound terbanyaklah that must be adhered together.

• 10 Minority consent

Namely, the victory of the majority who accepted gracefully by minorities, but in this case did not feel defeated minority or disadvantaged and agreed to cooperate with the majority.

• 11. Compromise

That is, an attempt to find a middle ground that will must be obeyed by the parties that are involved in the conflict.

• 12. Integration

Namely, business solve problems by discussing, reviewing, and reconsider the opinion of any related parties in order to obtain a decision that forced all parties in conflict to comply.

In the domestic life disagree is a common thing, but if someday conflicts try not to let it drag on. It takes an attitude of humility and long-suffering, so that harmony will always you can feel with your partner in a family unit intact and happy.

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Some Adverse effects of divorce on children

In this modern era, divorce seems to have become a common phenomenon in marriage. In this case, children who eventually become victims. Parting was not just leave the wound in the hearts of children, but also mental problems, including depression and stress. Well, here are five common effects of divorce on children, especially those who are still young age. Let's look together!

1. Depression

Depression is one of the most common symptoms seen in children, when their parents split up. Children will begin to isolate themselves in their world and away from things that are usually done by children their age. He did it because he could not accept the divorce.

2. Prone to violent behavior

This behavior arises because the child begins to feel as if he was deceived by his parents. In addition, he is also doing that to attract the attention of both parents. He hopes that what he did could return to unite his family.

3. Difficult focus

Divorce adversely affect children's performance, especially for his achievements in school. That is because he kept thinking about his parents' divorce, so she can not focus on anything else. If left unchecked, the child's achievement will continue to decline and even destroyed.

4. Loss of respect

This often occurs in children who grew up or were teenagers. Divorce it makes them lose their respect for the elderly. They even dare to blame their parents, as assessed had ruined their lives. In addition, children are also often used as a joke in school because parents divorce. As a result, the child was venting all his anger to his parents.

Most children who are victims of divorce decide (or forced) to choose the wrong path, including drug and alcohol abuse, sexual harassment, and other bad things. They sometimes do it as a form of escape to reality.

Here are five bad effects of divorce on children. Although not all children fall into the wrong path because of divorce, parents should be more careful in giving sense to the child. If divorce becomes the only way to trouble you, think about what will happen in the future child.

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Some Simple Thing Causes of Divorce in the Household

In this modern era we are treated to a scene much about divorce. Most probably we can see is a divorce case made by our artists. many of which involved a check choke and lead to justice. Divorce is not just happen on any long-married couples but divorce may also occur at the newly married mate, there is no religion that justifies divorce. So is this a sign that person's ability to maintain the integrity of the household has declined from year to year?. to answer what are the causes of divorce I would give the following five causes of divorce:

1. Financial Problems

Actually this is not a major problem that causes divorce, this is more to communication, when a family relationship is being hit by the problem of shortage in terms of money, the family was not able to find the best solution to overcome the financial that they are blaming each other, it is not mutually believe that timbulah a divorce.

2. Family Relationships

Family relationships between parents and children, siblings, brother-in-law or a stepchild, could be a source of problems in the relationship of husband and wife. Such as when a wife who does not fit in with the mother-in-law, mother-in-law then it will always create problems for the wife. And worse when the husband is closer to the mother-in-law of his wife he would have more confidence with the mother-in-law, and it will have an impact on the breakdown of their relationship.

3. Issue a baby

One of the main goals of a marriage is to have children, the breakdown of the marital relationship or divorce can be caused because of not having children.

4. Problems dependence

If one of your wife or husband experienced dependence on drink and drugs are prohibited, and other materials that will make your relationship becomes more easily destroyed, although sometimes not cause a violent. like for example when you are drunk husband drunk so spend a lot of property that has been painstakingly you collect from start to zero. It will be a gap that immerses you two.

5. Domestic violence

There are so many divorce cases that occur as a result of violence, such as cases of the artists who have been abused by their partner alone. This happens due to the lack of communication between the two, if the communication between the two of them can tejalin well, I guess there could be no domestic violence. Domestic violence is a common factor that most divorces we encountered.

Actually, if we want more to think positive, think with a cool head we may not be confronted in a divorce, because basically the divorce occurred because one of the parties does not want to talk about the problems they encounter with a cool head. My advice when you encounter a problem in your home, you do not wear your emotions to solve the problem. Because there will never be a problem that can be completed with the emotions, solve problems in your home by using a cool head and heart were always patient.

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