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The phenomenon of domestic violence almost every day of issue and present in newspapers, television, and radio. Then the question is why does this happen so easily?
The phenomenon of domestic violence almost every day of issue and present in newspapers, television, and radio. This news create fear and makes the heart sad. Then the question is why does this happen so easily? Is this caused by the development of modern times already and sophisticated or a warning to mankind that these are signs of the end times?
Many factors make domestic violence, and it should avoid so it does not happen in your family. Here are a few factors.
1. Talking loud and painful
This behavior is very important and you should absolutely avoid to all family members. Talking loud and loud will make the listener hurt another case with a polite talk will make the other person becomes sympathetic. Thus will avoid misunderstandings that make strife in your family.
2. Can not wait
The next factor is impatience, because it is a benchmark in the event you take action. In family life must not be separated from error. If you have a family you do something wrong do occasionally sentenced. Give the concerned speak to convey his argument. Then give advice or advice with a polite tone and wise not to repeat the same mistakes.
3. The nature of the ego
The nature of selfishness will only encourage your hearts be hard then appear arrogant behavior and persecution of others. Keep the nature of your life. Because if the nature of the egoism continue nesting and settles in the human heart over time will emerge types of liver disease include stubbornness difficult to accept the advice of others, envy, revenge, and so forth. Keep properties like that of your life.
4. Economy
One case of domestic violence are economic factors that are less well established, in terms of the domestic life of the economy is still fragile. So with such a situation will arise various disputes in your household everyday because of the demands of a spouse or your child are not met. So before you carry home life should prepare your financial ability to meet the needs of a decent life.
5. Looking for a scapegoat
When you get a big problem in the work that makes a chaotic mind, do not ever vent into the house because family members do not know anything. Resolve problems in your work and do not jumble into the family. It would be nice if you talk, your partner may have a way out of your problems.
6. There is no culture of democracy in the household
In the family, the husband has the task of becoming the head of the family but not all things are done it right. If the husband of one in conveying or doing something, as wives do not hesitate to justify. Vice versa, if the wife of doing something, husband obligation to steer to the right path. With gentle words it will be readily accepted by the couple and not to make the hurt.
7. Less is open in the family
Less open is one of the things that can make it harmonious married life. If you have a problem outside, do not sweat it alone, it will make you become a greater burden. Communicate about issues received to your partner and find a solution together that would ease the burden of your problems.
8. Go out of the house for no reason
In this case many examples done by children who grew up and still unstable. As a parent, you should be more strict in maintaining and supervising your children while going out of the house. By giving directives about the negative and positive outside the house, then your children will think and away from negative things that you are prohibited.
9. PRIS bad
Prejudiced against the couple will make the discomfort in the household. These properties would make sense not to believe in all the things that couples do. With a good mind to couples will foster mutual trust in married life and this will add to the harmony in the family.
