Social media-whether it's Facebook, Twitter, Google+ and others-has many benefits and can have negative impacts. If not addressed properly, the use of social media it can damage the household. In the United States, a survey conducted by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers that divorce is a result of social media increased by 80 percent. In Indonesia, the rate of divorce for reasons related to social media also increased from year to year. In Probolinggo, for example. Starting in 2013 appeared the case of divorce because of Facebook. Facebook triggers family disharmony.
How social media can damage the household ?
Here are 10 things including:
Here are 10 things including:
MORE LONGER SOCIAL MEDIA THAN JOINT FAMILY
Quoted from Vemale, in the USA there is a divorce because his wife likes to linger update social media to neglect children and her husband.
Does this also happen in Muslim countries such as Indonesia? Very likely. Because it turns out there is a husband or wife who is fun to spend a lot of time on social media, but feel overwhelmed when membersamai children and spouse. Of course things like this can ruin his own household. Children become distant from him, his life partner also no longer feel loved. In fact, the family is the closest person who is always present when he needs. Look when one day he fell ill. Is online friends of his that will be present to help and take care of her? No. In the end who is willing to care for her 24 hours only spouses and children.
MEANS BEING AFFAIR
When social media be used as a means of cheating, so watch the destruction of family moments. A husband who consulted about the problem in Alkhoirot feel sorry to have to teach her to use Facebook. Because of social media, the wife of communication connected with a former girlfriend during high school. From there the two are send messages, and old love blossomed again.
The husband who opened the messages of love that angry. He asked her to stop. But his wife actually dared to go along with his former girlfriend. Households they began to fall apart.
BUILD affection in SOCIAL MEDIA
Households could also fall apart because of social media when a husband or wife to use social media for making out or approaching others. In fact, despite his intentions just friends.
A wife's initials S tell that she really does not like to comment on other people's Facebook status. He only uses up with the intention of establishing friendship. However, her husband did not like it. Her husband did not like him to communicate through social media the most, especially the opposite sex. S felt he was not guilty. Both had a fight and her husband say the words connote divorce. Fearing that the sentence was completely lawless divorce, S was consulted this to konsultasisyariah.com
Indulgence HOUSEHOLD MATTERS
Households could also fall apart when a husband or wife spit domestic problems in social media. Presumably it is easy to find examples, both on Facebook and on Twitter. For example, someone who shared a link to a news while providing notes, "It's good so if you have a husband like this. My husband blah blah blah "
Sometimes it like it is deemed trivial. In fact, no one likes her shame opened in public. Moreover, by the wife or her husband. Husband or wife angry because they feel harassed -and anyone can read social media will generally vent anger with scolded. An argument erupted. What's worse, if later ended in divorce as experienced by couples in Probolinggo in 2013.
Fun With THAN SOCIAL MEDIA COMMUNICATION WITH HUSBAND / WIFE
With the rise of smartphones, social media is also more accessible. Worse, some people are 'addicted' to the exclusion of social media communication with their spouse.
Sometimes happens, a man met his wife. In one house, one room, face to face. But her husband does not care for his wife who is speaking because he preoccupied with gadget. It can make the wife feel offended and disrespected. Feeling no longer loved. This is dangerous. Even if he does not fight, his heart actually hurt and love eroded because of this attitude. Although it was not until the divorce, if the habit, it can loosen their relationship and disturb the harmony of the family.
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