Although we are busy with all the activities that exist should we also have to take the time to close with the family especially children. The role of parents in childhood is very influential for the growth and development of their children.
Routines may have turned us into people who do not care about us. Because solid routine, making us unable to interact with the people around, including the family. Although we are busy with all the activities that exist, should we also have to take the time to close with the family especially children. The role of parents in childhood is very influential for the growth and development of their children. Therefore, a close relationship with the child's need to have to lead them and be a role model for them. At least take the time to strengthen the relationship with the child.
Consider the following things that can strengthen the relationship with the child's parents.
1. Vacationing
The most common way and effectively carried out by all the parents are away on holiday with the children. Whether it's going to the recreation park, go to the beach, or maybe go camping. Try to get as close to the child's self with him talking or joking. Not a problem friend a nice vacation or not, but the opportunity to be with the child need to use it well.
2. Clean the house together
A simple way to do without having to spend a lot is to clean the house together. In addition to strengthening the relationship of parents with children, it also can foster cooperation between parents and children. Not only that, in this way we also teach our children to be responsible and care about the cleanliness of the neighborhood.
3. Perform a hobby together
If parents and children pick the same hobby, you do not need to search for topics or what it can attract the attention of the child. With the same hobby closeness between children and parents will stay awake, because they will continue to talk about the hobby together they like.
4. Do not lose a moment to talk with children
Although you are busy with all the activities that exist but do not let a moment to speak with the missing child. Use the sidelines of the time available to talk with the child whether it is currently taking a child to go to school, breakfast time, pick up school children, and so on. Ask questions about life at school, friends at home or something that can make them happy. In this case the parents should always actively looking for questions for their children.
5. Accompany and guide children learn
This may rarely or may not have had time to do because of the busyness that requires you to leave this opportunity. But try to take time to help and guide them in their learning at school. Although merely assist them in learning, it can make your child's heart happy.
6. Try replacing the role of a maid or nanny you
Although we've put all the responsibility of caring for the child to the maid or nanny, but the exact role of parents can not be replaced by a nanny. Do not let our children all about hanging the nanny, the role of parents is also important. Try to be a real parent for your child to take care of them, bathe them, prepare breakfast for them, and many more.
7. Storytelling for them
Although many say that storytelling is an ancient method used to get closer to parents with children, it turns out it is still an effective way to use. With storytelling we also teach children to process information and imagination with what we talked about. Tell me about the stories that can inspire them and build their spirit.
8. Give the gift of a surprise for an achievement
The kids were very happy with the gift, especially if the gift is the object he wants tersebuat. This method is also good enough to be close to the child, through this way we teach that something can not be obtained in a way that instant but it takes hard work to achieve it.
9. Bring to worship together
Although we have inadequate physical needs but do not forget we must meet spiritual needs as well. Teach children to know God early on will give a lot of positive impact dikehidupannya later. Parents in this very important role in the spiritual development of the child to God. Do this over and over in order to get closer to God's children and the elderly.
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