As a baby, the child is looked so adorable, the age of the range toddlers age 2-3 years they grow into a so awesome, has a curiosity that is so great that this behavior is not uncommon to make his father and his mother laughed grimly. With age, this little one into a unique person who has hopes and desires of its own and even this desire can not be in accordance with what is expected by the father and mother.
In some cases, the father and mother found her son a carefree and tractable suddenly turned into explosive personal, sentimental, dissidents, hyperactive, aggressive whiny and some other properties that are less favored. Here, the role and patience father and mother as a parent being tested.
But not to worry, we need to understand that the above properties is normal thing to happen in children. As adults are not always perfect, this little one is also sometimes can behave unpleasant and considered annoying. But the most important thing is to teach the limits of reasonableness in this little one is a mandatory task for a parent.
Causes of Unruly Child
If the mother's father found the little one who suddenly becomes angry, have a negative character and unruly, before rebuked him blindly, there is a good father and mother introspection first, is there a character that makes this little one feel less attention, frustrated or depressed. Because basically, the less attention the child will do anything to make it to the attention of his parents and the people around him. So do not be surprised when it was dikeramaian, then suddenly this little one became unruly and tend dissidents. In addition, the other reason is because the child is having problems in adapting to its environment. Or maybe it is typical of people who tend to be anti-social pulled himself from the environment.
When faced with an unruly child, scolding is not a smart solution to solve the problem. Instead, let the children continue to apply as such, because the father and mother are tired with his behavior, also not a wise move. As a parent, never mind the duty of educating children. In order to overcome the father and mother unruly child.
Here are smart tips to overcome them:
1. Perform Approach
When the fuss and unruly child, responded with loud and heat does not resolve the problem, otherwise the child will be even more fussy and difficult to manage. When this happens didean general, the father and mother would be less hassle. For that, do subtle approach and began to give him wise counsel, for he understands what he wants is not a good thing. keep consistency father and mother, as for example when he wants ice cream, after his father and mother forbade him to say no, then keep up this little one under. That way the child will be getting used and according to the words of the mother's father.
2. Shows Strong Commitment
In addition to the consistency needs to be maintained, strong determination is also necessary to point out. When faced with a difficult fight that moved at this little one, parents should always show a strong determination. This is important, because when we mneyerah, although not say, children will be able to know whether they can win or not. With strong determination you must have the internal strength to keep this little one of the things that are bad for him. Children should be able to see the determination and inner strength to straighten parents when they are wrong and to know that you do so on the basis of compassion.
3. Create Special Regulations
Other smart tips that can be father and mother to do is to create special rules that have been discussed in advance with the little one. This regulation would have consequences for the child tries to avoid the mischievous deeds. The more the father and mother patiently then children will be more easily controlled. And do not forget to enact regulations that have been made to keep this little one considering the limitations. In addition, always give him the award when he was doing good things is by giving praise.
