Love the parents of all time, the love child all the memories. So maybe proverb to describe the relationship between parent and child. Love of parents towards their children will not be interrupted even if the distance and time separating body. But not necessarily the love child like love both parents. When children become successful and all-sufficient person they can forget the parents, even just to visit his parents during the holidays only. Despite all that, the key is good communication and comfortable.
Sometimes parents also do not know how to speak good on his son a result, the son of response led to the debate. Here it is often a debate parent and child.
Education. Parents would want their children a good education so you can easily find a job. Quite often they are contributing to choose schools for their children, there is also to force their children to school would place his parents choice. But the choice of different children, children have their own choices that make them feel comfortable while studying. Sometimes also want a school with her best friend.
Mate. Problem mate will be very selective parents give consent, because dating is something that will be undertaken in a long time which may be for life if the marriage lasting. No wonder parents often see the prospective in-laws of seeds, ancestor, weight. Which means the views of private, family lines and establishment candidates uncertain. Unlike the case with a child, they tend to look at in terms of physical and action. They will choose someone handsome, capable of making the heart feel happy, safe and comfortable. While it may be just an ordinary man.
Residence. Parents who are already pregnant, give birth, and raise, hoping that their children would live together after marriage. They hoped their children would accompany their old age and care for them until his death. But of the children, want to feel independent living. Finally, a debate ensued. Each will argue as desired.
From some of the examples that are at issue is the awareness of the role of each. As a parent supposed to be a friend to her children. Thinking that the child is entrusted god, the child is a trust that must be maintained so that they are always running in the corridor is right according to religious teachings. Not assume the child is theirs entirely, until they are entitled to form children as what they want.
And as a child also must understand the role of parents is essential for their lives, because without them we would not exist. Reveal what we desire with smooth without offending parents. Do not forward the emotion when not mengsetujui opinion of parents. With so expected the parents can understand their desire and are willing to approve his step.
