To your fathers, know that the duties and responsibilities you are also not less amazing, both with your dear wife, you have to work together, hand in hand to guide us your children, so that we can grow into those that can be useful for self own and other people around us.
But ironically, the hope for hope is as if only a mere wishful thinking, the reality of everyday life are often found in cases where a child bravely against their parents, not even rare that a child who could physically hurt her parents. Why does this happen?
Do not blame your children when suddenly they dare to fight you or does not want to follow your advice. You need to know, this is happening because there is a sense of dissatisfaction in their hearts, on the pattern of parenting skills, or due to lack of attention from you.
Therefore, if any of you are currently facing a rebellion of your child, than you are constantly hostile to them, here are some things you need to know about the causes of why a child suddenly become rebellious and brave fight her parents.
1. authoritarian attitude of parents
Authoritarian parents strongly influence the child's personality, because of pressure by the pressure felt, eventually will make the child must take a stance on whether it will continue to comply with their parents or be indulging. Try not to become a parent, you can teach discipline and rigor to your child, but remains flexible in its application process.
2. Telling children at an inopportune time
When you want to send your child to do something, while she was busy with activity, usually a child will refuse to obey the orders of his parents because he felt disturbed. When you have so avoid to force it, as long as you can still do it by himself, he did. However, if it is very urgent and you need help right away, then try to pass it in a good way, give him the understanding that assistance from her very you need. Thus, they will feel needed though was annoyed because your child will realize it is part of their responsibility.
3. Parents can not meet the wishes of the child
If the parents can not fulfill his desire, as a form of protest they will usually show the hard side of his head with the hope desires can be fulfilled or just want to get the attention of their parents.
4. Children are allowed to grow up to experience leadership crisis
Usually occurs when parents are too busy with itself, can cause problems at work or because it really was not concerned about his family. Know that children crave discipline and example of their parents. However, if in the role of parent families are no longer functioning, then do not be surprised if they dare to fight you.
5. The influence of the surrounding environment and friendship
Family environment where you live also influence the development of your child's personality. Friends of play are involved in the process of establishing their identity. Therefore, if you live in a bad neighborhood, then do not be surprised if suddenly your child can utter an expletive.
6. Modelling the behavior of parents
Children are a true imitator, they will imitate what is seen and heard. As a parent, if you find your child brave fight, then introspeksilah yourself, ask yourself whether you've already set a good example to them, or just the opposite. If you expect to have an obedient children, give them exemplary, immediately stop quarrels with your partner and never repeat it again. Establish a positive attitude in your child since they were little, so that when they grow up will be reluctant to revolt or against you.
