When newly married wife sometimes feel a bit overwhelmed realizing the magnitude of his responsibility to love and care of her husband. Sudden almost all the welfare and happiness of another person is strongly influenced by the actions and choices by his wife. Women, we should be careful in taking care of my husband and our marriage.
Here are some things you without you knowing it can destroy your husband and marriage. Do not let little things ruin your chance to savor the greatest happiness in life. (Note: although this writing about women, but applies also for men)
1. Living exceed your ability
A wise old woman once told, "The best thing to do for a woman her husband is to live according to his ability." Wife, show your appreciation and respect to the husband by following budget carefully and make the best use of what you have.
Whine constantly because not enough money and wasteful spending so that your credit card can not be used again is a bad way to express gratitude to you faithful husband and has been working hard to meet the needs of the household. You are not able to buy a Gucci bag that's been months of your dreams, but your husband will thank you that you have to respect him and be grateful for what he gave.
2. The negative attitude of unceasing
You hate your hair, messy house, next to the nosy neighbors, co-workers who are incompetent, trashy old cars and many other trappings. Once the husband comes home from work you throw all the resentment that meets your heart that day.
Imagine a heavy load. Negative attitudes spend energy. Although men like to fix something that is not right, but if you are flooded with all things negative, it is difficult for him to solve your problem.
One thing I learned from a good marriage is the man who wants to live a happy life, and if he can not help you feel happy, he would be very disturbed. No harm, and it is understandable if you occasionally experience a less pleasant day, but do not complain every day.
3. Concerned other things
If you are more concerned about the child, mother, friend, talent or career than your husband, you openly declare that he is not important. Imagine if over the years someone do that to you. What will happen with your self-esteem?
Prioritizing your husband.
Although it may seem inappropriate and unproductive, you will be amazed when realizing that it is the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. Many couples divorce because they do not pay attention and love each other and do not prioritize their partners.
If you choose to prioritize each other, you will find happiness.
4. Not being affectionate towards her husband
Men yearn for and need intimacy of their wives, when you continuously ignore it they will be frustrated.
Physical relationship should not be manipulated to control the husband; it should be seen as a sacred way to forge a strong bond between the two of you.
Is a great gift when you feel needed and missed by a romantic husband who want to enjoy something important and beautiful with you - just you. Although you do not want it at the time, it is important that you follow his will (if possible) and spend some time to establish love with him.
5. The difference between women and men
Women like to give the (already a female instinct). Men do not understand the signs of the (already a male instinct).
Do not waste your time by giving a sign that he did not understand: Speak frankly. Be honest about how you feel, do not wait until you explode. When he asked what was wrong, do not lie to answer "no nothing" but wished he could read your mind and emotions. Be open to express your feelings.
source:
"5 ways you are unknowingly destroying killing your husband and your marriage" by Katelyn Carmen.
