It is important to educate our children to avoid sexual harassment. Here are some tips that concerns us:
1. Distinguish the body that may be touched and not
From now on, you can take a piece of paper with the full body of the shoulders, head, shoulders, knees, feet so on.
Next, provide a marker or a few pieces of paper in red and green. Red paper is used for body parts that should not be touched. Instead, the green paper is a part of the body that can be touched others.
To be exciting, you can apply this way while playing. For example, tell your child to stick red paper or mark the body part that he is not comfortable to the touch using the red marker. Whatever alasnnya, grant the child to answer.
Next, ask the children to mark the parts of the body may touch other people. For example, in the hand to shake hands.
If the Son of red marks on the lips and so on, it's okay. Because by doing so, he will be aware of the body that he felt comfortable and did not. If still not in accordance with the values in the family or culture, especially with the genitals, that is where you give sex education to your child.
Sex education itself, can be done by saying something like, "Son if here, in part panties, this is a red triangle, a private area that should not be allowed to touch anyone. Anyone. Even touching mama, mama will help to pee."
2. Independent in toilet
In addition to teaching about the anatomy that should and should not be touched. Also advised parents to teach their children to lock the door to the toilet.
You can encourage and teach locked in toilet school or shopping so she felt safe during defecation. With this little thing, the child will learn part of sex education.
3. Recognize the false alarm
His name is also the children. Sometimes he says, he does not like to be touched in certain parts. But we can say, it is only in the hands. It's called false alarms. When that time came and reported child, let that because when a child has the courage to report it means he will already be aware of his body.
