Having experienced in the world of weddings, I conclude that it is my duty to share my experiences with other couples with the decision to divorce.
I want to share with you, what I believe, as the main reason couples have a hard time keeping their marriage intact.
You will notice when you are researching 8 this reason, nothing looks serious on this list. None of this subject at first glance seem a big deal.
Let's discuss them one by one.
1. Saturation
It is the choice of each individual to keep boredom crept into their lives. It is not the task of your partner to continue to entertain you or to adjust everything he did in order to keep you always happy. Find a job you love, choose a hobby, follow the class to develop yourself, find things you like and do. You will bring it to the happiness of your marriage.
2. Unrealistic Expectations about marriage
Married with the thought that all would be fun and have fun, be happy every time and continue to rejoice forever only to plunge you into a place called disappointment. Is when we realize that we are in this situation together, we want to protect and love each other, we want to be in the same street as our goal, and we want to bring joy to each other so that all things start running smoothly.
3. Refuse to look the other way than you do in doing something
Are those that become rigid and organize the most important for us. In the end, if nothing has changed, one or both of you will be unhappy. The real meaning of truly loving others is to learn to give.
4. The idea: The grass is greener
It is very WRONG. I have been married and often enough to know that every relationship requires a lot of effort. And if you really want to succeed, you will do whatever it takes.
5. Lack of humility: never wrong and do not forgive
When you are wrong - admit it. When you right - say too sorry. We all know the word, I'm sorry, work to fix the problems in the relationship. Women, in particular, we will be touched and forgive anything if a man humbly apologize. Is normal to make mistakes.
6. The focus changed from love to criticism
It is easy, for many years, to begin to see the negative in any relationship because you are met at all times. More difficult to find and appreciate the positive things. Make a desire to look for good things from your partner and show it to your partner.
7. The mindset that is difficult to change.
If I gather a thousand for every time I heard the greeting, "that's me, do not try to change me." I will be rich. If that is your attitude - change your attitude now. We all have the space to be developed, and be willing to change will only create a worse situation
8. Money: shortage or waste of
As long as there is money, there is always a problem in the marriage. What else can I say.
And again, in its own way, this thing looks harmless, but money can lead to bigger problems in the marriage, if not controlled. Some couples are very remarkable in uniting their minds when the situation becomes difficult. However, some couples believe that the solution is to go - infidelity, too old to work, drugs and alcohol, too long outside the home - the list continues to grow.
Do what you can do to make your marriage intact. Do whatever it takes to get there. If you have trouble, take a case or problem and solve it now. If you can save your marriage, in the end, it will be worth it.
Do what you can do to make your marriage intact. Do whatever it takes to get there. If you have trouble, take a case or problem and solve it now. If you can save your marriage, in the end, it will be worth it.
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