In this modern era, divorce seems to have become a common phenomenon in marriage. In this case, children who eventually become victims. Parting was not just leave the wound in the hearts of children, but also mental problems, including depression and stress. Well, here are five common effects of divorce on children, especially those who are still young age. Let's look together!
1. Depression
Depression is one of the most common symptoms seen in children, when their parents split up. Children will begin to isolate themselves in their world and away from things that are usually done by children their age. He did it because he could not accept the divorce.
2. Prone to violent behavior
This behavior arises because the child begins to feel as if he was deceived by his parents. In addition, he is also doing that to attract the attention of both parents. He hopes that what he did could return to unite his family.
3. Difficult focus
Divorce adversely affect children's performance, especially for his achievements in school. That is because he kept thinking about his parents' divorce, so she can not focus on anything else. If left unchecked, the child's achievement will continue to decline and even destroyed.
4. Loss of respect
This often occurs in children who grew up or were teenagers. Divorce it makes them lose their respect for the elderly. They even dare to blame their parents, as assessed had ruined their lives. In addition, children are also often used as a joke in school because parents divorce. As a result, the child was venting all his anger to his parents.
Most children who are victims of divorce decide (or forced) to choose the wrong path, including drug and alcohol abuse, sexual harassment, and other bad things. They sometimes do it as a form of escape to reality.
Here are five bad effects of divorce on children. Although not all children fall into the wrong path because of divorce, parents should be more careful in giving sense to the child. If divorce becomes the only way to trouble you, think about what will happen in the future child.
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