Sexual intercourse should be a special moment, a celebration of the love of a man and a woman who promised to stay together until death in a valid marriage bond. (Read: Married Have Health Benefits in Retirement)
However, these moments are often the scene when sexual relations between men and women is exaggerated and changed its meaning. That, the sign of love and a sign of love to be proven with sexual intercourse although not in a valid marriage bond.
So what about the sexual relationship in marriage is not valid? Sexual intercourse is becoming intimate relationship irresponsible to risk occurs:
1. Pregnancy outside of marriage,
2. The child out of wedlock,
3. Abortion is not safe,
4. The spread of sexually transmitted infections and HIV / AIDS,
5. Increased stress and depression.
Controlling Lust Sex
Considering these things, certainly not a problem to say "No" to the unprotected sexual intercourse.
In addition to saying "No", take precautions to avoid doing various activities that tend to sexual stimulation can continue to be a sexual relationship needs to be done.
Controlling sexual appetite can be done by:
1. Physical activity such as sports or hobbies to pass the time will also help avoid the pair of activities that have the potential for the occurrence of sexual intercourse is not responsible.
2. Conducting rollicking, avoid alone together.
3. Avoid doing "Petting".
4. Do not be consumed by the environmental effects of "free sex".
5. Remember to save face for our legitimate partner in the future, especially women.
6. Approach religion.
